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A HAPPIER LIFE.

by Mademoiselle Rutere

From the very first time I open my eyes everyday, I like to compose myself and look forward to a great day ahead. That thought alone gives me something to smile about. It’s important for me to feel happy every day because the moment I let go of that feeling is the moment I fall out of love with life. The old me didn’t understand that you had to consciously live a happy life, it doesn’t just happen. You learn to live happier and you learn how to love life.
I’m not always smiling, I’m human of course, but whenever I find myself in that gloomy mood I always remind myself the small rules towards my happy fulfilling life, and here I am sharing these little secrets with you guys.

  • ENGAGE IN AN ACTIVITY THAT WILL CHALLENGE YOU- Ice skating was a challenge for me. I had a phobia of falling and hurting myself. But after a couple of falls and picking myself up I managed to learn and laugh and smile and walk on ice.
  • ALWAYS FORGIVE – Don’t just forgive, forgive and let go. We have all experienced times in our lives where we feel that we may have been wronged and it’s even harder to take when it’s from someone you like, cared about or even aspired to be. But holding on to those feelings of animosity will inevitably consume you and any happiness that you may have once felt.But learning to let go, accept what has happened and move the hell on from it, perhaps even learning a little and growing as a person along the way really is a satisfying and liberating process. All you have to do is let it go.
  • EXERCISE AND BE CONSISTENT IN IT – I’ve come to realize that taking care of your  body  is the best way to appreciate it and your life in general.  Exercise absolutely changed my world it enabled me to fall in love with my body, learn just how disciplined I am and also push myself through nothing but motivation. It really has moulded me into a better person. 
  • BE THANKFUL – Being thankful is something I try to practice daily. From things that are as simple as waking up in the morning, the amazing people I have in my life, like seriously there’s billions of us out there and I got blessed with a bunch of the best, what are the odds? I’m thankful for all of these little moments throughout every day.
  • SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GOOD PEOPLE – If you’ve read my previous post, I’m sure you so this as part of my top 22 items / people that boost my moods. somehow I ended up with a great bunch of humans surrounding me. But when I say somehow what I really mean is I selected them intrinsically. From the best friend who selflessly helps me in day to day life or picks me up when I need it most to my closest family member, Le Sister who is always there for me. Those are the people who I choose to keep around me, who enrich my world every day and make it as happy as it is.

How Do You Live Your LIfe?

How Do Manage To Spice It Up?

Let me know in the comment section.

Have yourselves a wonderful week.

*Lots Of Love*

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11 comments

PKK March 28, 2018 - 2:46 pm

Lovely piece, great take out message. LIFE it is.

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puritie April 12, 2018 - 6:44 pm

it sure is

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Faustine March 28, 2018 - 6:09 pm

Be thankful is a message i’ve taken from this post. Great article Purity

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puritie April 12, 2018 - 6:44 pm

glad you took something out of it

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Claive Wafula March 28, 2018 - 9:16 pm

‘Surround yourself with good people’- I second that. There is so much power that comes with positive energy, and that comes from the friends we keep, the things we watch and listen to, and also the things we speak. It’s what we feed our souls. Garbage in, garbage out! Nice read as always Purity

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puritie April 12, 2018 - 6:44 pm

thanks dear

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Stano N April 9, 2018 - 10:40 am

How I manage to spice up my life, I agree with all you’ve said Puritie, and above all I pick surrounding myself with good people ie those that understand me and I them, I have really found it to be a most effective way of making life easier and liveable, which is especially handy during those rough times. I appreciate a lot. Thanks dear Purity😘

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puritie April 12, 2018 - 6:43 pm

most welcome Stan

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Chris Kim April 13, 2018 - 8:27 am

I don’t let people with negative energy in my life.
Unfortunately people don’t know the power of negative guys

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puritie April 15, 2018 - 1:10 pm

true thing chris.

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